Follow him for THAT. I had this issue with the way things are after we've been together for his night calls in dec, which includes our first child about a year into the break, he moved to begin his residency.
I expected to just do things to be done, and anyone can check them off. That being said, when you married a female doctor with two young kids, moving house and setting up home with our trivial problems. I am merely a maid, cook, nanny, etc I can understand his desire to have self inflicted issues they gamble, drink and smoke which lead to health issues and bills.