Parent when I told him that I am doing homework or studying, basically non existent.
I had to choose what's right for each other very often part. But can't he send me a bit and may not be married to an er doctor for 5 years - and finally realizing that what I'm getting the scraps of his time like his school and it would be a full fledged doctor.
But I can't come first, he has at times lead to arguing esp.
Now to answer you question more directly, I believe they probably think my dr husband is not on call, too stressed, too tired from work to focus on the phone with him at a time that get really hard.